watso was looking for something, and found the following email provider
www.bigstring.com
from the website
"While Big Brother Is Watching, Bigstring Is Watching Your Back
Until now, you’ve been the person with the least control over your emails because, after you send them, they can be stored and scanned in more places than you can imagine. Do you want anyone to permanently store your messages? Do you want your words to possibly live in infamy without your knowledge? Take back control with BigString, your virtual email shredder....
Clicking and Sending Safer than Airbags
Now YOU decide the fate of your emails. BigString emails can be destroyed, recalled or changed even after they've been opened! You’re the boss, and clicking "send" will never again be an irreversible disaster...
....You can even self-destruct messages and resend a new one, and only you will know the switch has occurred! You’re not just the boss with BigString, you’re more efficient, reliable, and valuable."
ok - watso has not worked out how to do all the features, but can vouch, that the messages do self destruct (well, the actual content , anyway)
