I agree - it is totally up to the individual and their...

I agree - it is totally up to the individual and their priorities.

I personally think that he went too hard but that is just me.

The thing is that he is a worker and a saver and that is who he is. He recently took his family away for a longish o/s holiday and then straight back into harness. One of the motivating issues for him is to bring up his son with his mum 100% present.

He doesn't complain at all about the hours he used to work or works now.

It is about choices and priorities, I agree that if you make the choices in the past you really can't cry foul when the rest of the world zooms past you.

That is it from me on this one.

best regards to all