malaz,
Remember this if nothing else "Gloat on someones misfortune and it WILL come back, twice as bad!". People in this world seem to forget this. I too some days have trouble dealing with the actions of some people, but hey, Karma takes care of everything.
Don't let rude insensative comments get to you, you never know when some people will eat their own words!
All the best with whichever path you choose.
