If you seek the pot of happiness at the end of the rainbow you will never find it.
The trick is not to seek it. And even then, once in your grasp; when you take a critical look at the world you will realize you are in a delusional state.
So, if any of you find happiness, you are either in a delusional state, or you are yourself a socio-path who enjoys the state of the world: that of being surrounded by philistines, fellow socio-paths, hedonists, ritualistic consumers, bureaucrats, and the corrupt.