words matter. If a person says something that’s what they’ve said - not the product of someone else’s projection. Maybe when you say something you mean something else but expect people to know what you really meant, or are comfortable with people making assumptions about you - or making it up
a lot of conflict occurs for precisely the reason that people don’t actually pay attention to what they are listening to or reading.
if you don’t think words matter New Zealand provides an excellent example of a nearly two century long stuff up. Rangatiratanga
