"Whats the solution to the muslim refusal to accept her existence
Start there"
From a western perspective?
Stay the hell out of it. No one asked Jews to go there, and 80 years of blowing people up, starting wars, lying, stealing, spying and intimidation have got us to this disastrous point. Why is the west responsible for a group of people who, as you demonstrate on a daily basis, think we are their inferiors?
Ben Shapiro said Israel didn't need help, he's changed his tune a bit since then; but essentially he was right. And even if he wasn't right, clearly no one can help fix the unfixable.
