Females give you the delicious buds whereas males grow annoying...

Females give you the delicious buds whereas males grow annoying balls (seed) and need to be tossed in the compost - I think you mean hermaphrodite, not Aphrodite and that is usually a case of stress or poorly managed hothouses.

FWIW the buds in that pic look decent but I've seen bolder and brassier out of a bikies back shed so who knows, the proof is in the pudding but even as shareholders I don't think we are entitled to that privilege are we?