nope
in fact the sick puppies are people with irrational fears - like homophobes
see a homophobe - and there you have a sick, sad, puppy - often closet gay, trapped, often never to find a way out of their emotional turmoil
you see them on here sometimes ----------- you get a real headsup when you see them with anal or bum fixations -
the ones who not only rise to the bait every single time when there's something about homosexuality or similar - but, sometimes they bring homophobic type comments into threads and discussions that have absolutely nothing to do with sex, homosexuality etc --
they have bum fixation and anal fixations ------------ a dead giveaway that something is always humming in their heads - looking out through the eyes, ears pricked up listening intently and the fixation fires wherever it possibly can - even for subjects that the emotionally stable and sane of us wouldn't even relate to bums or anus or homosexuality in the slightest possible way
why? --------- well, sometimes -------
''Internalised homophobia can lead closeted individuals to engage in various coping mechanisms, such as denial of their sexual orientation, attempts to change their orientation, contempt for more open members of the LGBTQ+ community, and even homophobic behaviors towards others.
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This is often exacerbated by growing up in authoritarian or homophobic households, where embracing a minority sexual orientation can be "terrifying".
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Overall, the research suggests that some closeted homosexuals do live in fear and denial of their own sexuality, which can manifest in complex psychological and behavioral ways. The roots of this internalized homophobia are often traced back to societal stigma and unsupportive family environments during formative years.
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Adams, H. E., Wright, L. W., & Lohr, B. A. (1996). Is homophobia associated with homosexual arousal?. Journal of Abnormal Psychology, 105(3), 440.
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Slaby, A. E. (1994). Homophobia, psychopathology, and the same-sex-oriented person. Psychiatric Annals, 24(1), 5-9.
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Drescher, J. (1998). Psychoanalytic therapy and the gay man. Hillsdale, NJ: Analytic Press.
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The Rainbow Project. (n.d.). Internalised Homophobia. Retrieved from https://www.rainbow-project.org/internalised-homophobia/
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Weinstein, N., Ryan, W. S., DeHaan, C. R., Przybylski, A. K., Legate, N., & Ryan, R. M. (2012). Parental autonomy support and discrepancies between implicit and explicit sexual identities: Dynamics of self-acceptance and defense. Journal of personality and social psychology, 102(4), 815.
