Do you find it difficult to get your head around that idea ?
I've hand a few encounters where I have had sexual relations with a girl/woman when we first meet, they are what I call meaning full over night relationships, or one night stands, ships that past in the night. Bit of a stretch to call them relationships
What I would call a relationship for me evolved over time, generally we start out as friends and a relationship develops. In the case of the girl I mentioned she was the sister of a friend of mine who got engaged to a cousin of mine, I worked away most of the year so would not see them all that often so years passed and I was completely unaware she had a crush on me until years latter she made it obvious.
Maybe you are like my dickhead brother who looks at all women as a potential sexual encounter, unlike me who had many female friends and were nothing more than friends
