Tell that to the men whose bored wife makes false claims against them to get them kicked out of the house and removed from their children for at least a year while the false claims are disproven in court and then there are no consequences for the woman making the false accusations at all. In addition, she gets awarded 50 to 70% of his money on top of this.
No scam at all you claim. One party gets rewarded handsomely for breaking a contract should be the definition of a scam.
Maybe marriage before the existence of no-fault divorces was better but that is not the current reality.
Alimony another scam given the claim that 'we don't need no man' of today's feminists.
Get over your naivety - it will make you a sucker. Engagement rings and expensive weddings additional scams.
