married people - "let go of themselves", page-10

The answer to this 'let go of themselves' conundrum is simple. When you're young and single you want to keep yourself slim and fit and well groomed for the simple reason of the urge to be a contender in the mating game. Once you've got your mate the mental attitude changes, it's the same for men and women, in case anyone is thinking of TOUing me for sexism.