"Highly paid, still working away in the mining industry like I have for many years, but now facing divorce and being cleaned out."
Why get married? There is nothing left in it for men to even bother. The way i understand it the wife turns into a sex withholding frump after about two years, while you are working your ass off to pay for everything. Then after she decides she is no longer "in love with you" the deck is stacked firmly against you in the family court re custody and access to any children and the division of assets. The 90/10 split is all too common these days.
