P, I'll not be responding to any more of your silliness. It's...

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14/05/24

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Originally posted by Parsifal: ↑

do you want me to do a detailed analysis of your responses to help you. I can do that but so far all you can do is attack me.

If you think it is ok for you to respond as you do then it is ok for me. What I think you have difficulty with is that I am challenging your self perception

my posts are directed at you about your behaviour and the mismatches. You have chosen to dismiss them by calling on a belief you have. I could give you a list of people who write on hotcopper who I find exceedingly distasteful. Most of those are in common with you. But most of those hold political and social views on which we are not so very different.

you should not waste your time of energy being concerned about me. I may be getting on in years and apart from a creaking body I remain active both physically and socially. While I may be regarded as unusual because I am not a run of the mill sort of person I am well enough loved and connected to have no fears for my own mental health. My mental health improved substantially once I was free of a controlling abusive and violent man. My experience of him is shared in one form or another by all of his multiple partners so it cannot be turned on me either. Trauma therapy addressed some of the underlying challenges that allowed me to first accept and then stay in such a relationship - and to constantly question myself. So you cannot brow beat me into submission by gaslighting.

so when you stop that maybe I’ll stop as well.

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P, I'll not be responding to any more of your silliness. It's not for my benefit that I'm doing this, it's for your benefit so you can take a breath away from this unhealthy journey you seem to be on. Go outside and smell the roses for a while.
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