So what dear. It is all URS ANY WAY.
All my assets are in joint name and wife got all the usual spending. But she does not give a hoot ......
I had to do that just in case for unforeseen circumstances and she still does not care.
She does not care what is where and how to get there.
I try telling her and discussing .she does not care.
Not that she is illiterate. She is very intelligent and v well educated.
Amazing stuff.