I think you need to re read your own post a few times and realize there are some serious ignorant issues here....
one thing I have learnt in my time is that people will embrace what makes them comfortable, they reach to God cause there life feels lost without some sort of meaning, those that dont believe in God and focus else where usually do not want to be answerable for there actions in life to a god... whether you belive in God or are simply a athiest the fact is we are human, and humanity is best lived with a kind heart and a giving nature... To dwell on what is not seen has proven to me to take ones life away from the things that matter... so many religious believers try to convert the converted, so many scientist argue amoungst them selves... it all seems so pointless at times...
I say live a good life, do good to those around you, set a loving example to your children, embrace the good... stay away from the things that bring negativity in your life, remove violence and angry entertainment from your home... respect your body, live and breathe and be thankful for the life you have.. If there is a God, I say thankyou for giving me a chance to live life, if there isnt and it some ridiculious big bang theory then when I die I simply turn to dust and I will be forgotten in the blink of an eye... for me I will not pollute my mind any more with "what if's" and "guilt trips"...
I say, "when life is down lift your head up and do something for someone to make you feel better"...this is my religion
