Sounds like a democratic relationship to me. Sounds like you have a problem with such relationships:
Former President Trump said in an interview that he told Melania Trump that she’s “got to write what you believe” regarding her apparent pro-choice stance on abortion in her memoir that’s set to release next week.
“We spoke about it. And I said, you have to write what you believe. I’m not going to tell what you to do. You have to write what you believe,” Trump told Fox News Channel’s Bill Melugin in an interview that aired Thursday.
Earlier this week, Trump said he would veto a federal abortion ban if it came across his desk. He argued states should decide their own abortion laws, with minimal federal intervention, though he says his own preference is for abortion exceptions for rape, incest or when the mother’s life is in jeopardy.
https://thehill.com/blogs/in-the-know/4915278-trump-melania-abortion-rights-comment/
