re: ok .just to proof a point .duicorp
true It seems you speak from experience. I was in the same boat,being a west european with old fashioned attitude towards woman,i was only rediculed when i happen to open the door for a girl. i was 16 years on my own and vowed never the get involved again with a western woman[there are good ones butthey are usuall attracted to bad guys] Untill i met my current wife and if give me a new lease on life. From day one we discussed anything thing and can be together for 24/7 without getting on each others nerves.
You should have seen her ahppy face when i sang a lovesong to her in a karaoke bar in china on our first meet. [happy face,hahah ,not becos of my voice,haha]