What you fail to see or accept is the problem is on both sides not just one sided
Yes agreed there are Palestinians that do not accept the right of Israel to exist, a view that can not be tolerated or accepted.
However the Israeli government is also made up of a party that policies include increasing settlements not reducing them, does not accept Palestinians right to a seperate state and even endorses ethnic cleansing. As Israel is a "democratic society" these views must also represent the views of portions of the general population. Views that also can not be tolerated or accepted
