Kremlin’s spokesman Dmitry Peskov said that mass missile strikes...

Kremlin’s spokesman Dmitry Peskov said that mass missile strikes targeting energy infrastructure across Ukraine are a consequence of Kyiv's refusal to negotiate.
How is this not a textbook example of abuser mentality, when one externalizes their responsibility for their actions onto the victim and defends that their abusive behavior is justified?
The only difference is that the entire nation-state acts as a terrorist abuser, and victimhood is measured in thousands of innocent deaths.