if your a successful person.......... male, why get married when the laws actively discriminate against you? The most important decision someone makes in life is who they marry, partner with. Get it wrong with kids involved and the new 20 years or so will be hell. Only need to read about a court case recently in the UK (I think it was the UK) where 20 years after a divorce a guy gets sued by his former wife as his life got much better and hers much worse and he had to pay a large lump sum. It wont be long until something like that happens here.
