Good on you jakspara, i was a single dad with 4 children from 3...

Good on you jakspara, i was a single dad with 4 children from 3 to 13 and held a full time job that had me out the door at 5.30 am, i employed a lady to mind them till daycare opened, kids always had good healthy food and were clean and wore clean clothes, like you i had no help from the mother, she didnt even want visitation for 7 months, i never got fat or lazy, it was hard work but it had to be done and it was done, now i have a wonderfull wife and the kids are grown up and im a grandfather, you will do just fine son, you can never go wrong doing the right thing..