it may just be that your personality sucks. Throw out the...

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    it may just be that your personality sucks. Throw out the self-pity, anger and sense of grievance. It's incredibly unattractive and a turnoff. Try to listen. Be patient. Be kind. I can't guarantee you will end up with the woman of your dreams, but at least you will be less of an asshole.

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    it is indeed a curious phenomenon - to level abuse, to want to discard or control women, to presume on their behalf what they want or need and to believe they own us lock, stock and barrel. The sense of entitlement is however, not unexpected

    it does seem to exist in abundant proportions among those who inhabit religious extremes but sadly it is not limited to them. I’ve seen it with fundamentalists of any persuasion but also with those who are just self entitled bad tempered and educated people. It seems, as you say, for them to have difficulty considering the possibility that their own personality may have something to do with it

    sort of sad really as they become a self fulfilling prophesy.




 
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