@DBT9If I wrote a book of my life history, experiences in the...

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If I wrote a book of my life history, experiences in the Biblical context etc, if I could remember them all LOL, there would be way, way, way too many things to just write off as coincidences.

From my experience, the following is a HUGE key;
James 1:6 - But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed.

In other words, consider it done before asking, or Don't ask at all.
It may not be an easy thing to do, but if one does it, they will be surprised. (But they shouldn't be).