fwiw, a great pal, 72 yrs old, yet looked no more than 60, died on thurs. he was gay. he never know his mum nor his dad. a super 'bloke', if ever there was one. he and his mate (also no longer with us) were friends of 40 and mrs 40 for well over 20 yrs.
however, my personal experience of gents toilets in the uk at 5 am in the mornings, when my employment got me up so early, was not something a child should ever see. the loos back then were cleaned out well before the general pop got up and about.