It's a tough world out there Moly, and if you haven't figured that out by the time you hit your sixties, then unfortunately you may never!
The markets are not for the faint hearted, and is certainly not a venue where one wishes to seek care and warmth from others.
If you have lost so much money that it's causing you such anguish, you obviously have not allocated your capital properly. That's a big mistake, and one of the first lessons you need to learn before you enter the world of investing!