Why do they have tears is a good question, considering they...

Why do they have tears is a good question, considering they would be with God,

Because it is as Jesus says.


so what's there to cry about,

So clearly, you are telling us, you don't/won't have tears?

or are they still crying because of going through the wrath?

No. They don't go through the wrath at all. That's ridiculous. It's just not biblically aligned.
You are way off the path to even suggest that.

I obviously don't have all the answers,

That's obvious. I keep telling you you have to move to your tribulation of knowing your condition, moving to the only place where you can have your sins washed by the blood of the Lamb as water wells up to eternal life.

so what's your thoughts on this area?

It's clear in the biblical narrative. Why don't you see it?

On a hypothetical, lets just say a trinity God is false,

The biblical narrative validates it.

have you ever gotten serious and actually laid out what a trinity God actually does to the Father and Son, if it was not true?

Sure. I've read your posts. I see your validity.

In short, the true Father and Son totally vanish.

No they don't. Jesus loses his pre existent diety nature. It's like your father had no sperm but you came about. You were never in your father. Only in thoughts and plans and then you came about.

Or will your mind not even allow you to consider this hypothetical?

You should think about your father not having the sperm that brought about you.
He just thought about you and then you were being spanked on the bum to try to have water well up from within to eternal life.