maybe you just need to learn to get a few things in order
firstly not to assume females always have sex on the brain
second to learn to check and maybe even to pay real attention
thirdly it might just be that while you are fumbling around or in line Flynn the woman realises that you are a big turn off and does change her mind. Get over it and get a grip and exit gracefully
you sound as though you really haven’t got a hang of it or you are arrogant
