"Okay, okay, I don't have free will, I never had free will, nobody wants to have sex with me, ...."
Bravo. In one stroke of insight you have reduced your attachment to both the illusion of free will and the prison of sexual desire.
And gained a smidgeon of understanding towards the basic questions "Who am I ?", "Where am I ?", "Why am I here ?"
Of course, we also know there's a better than even chance that by tomorrow you will have forgotten this revelation and things will plonk back into their usual spots. One step forward 15/16ths of a step back.
