If I am the mother surviving that and I was not asked to reply...

If I am the mother surviving that and I was not asked to reply if I wanted to be shot in the ambulance dead with a nod of my head I am allowed to kill myself!!

I am sorry some situations should be allowed to be unbearable and soul destroying and I think she is achieved peace when she died later because frankly I do not know how anyone could live on from such a hellish event!!