It's not a gender thing, it's a psychological thing. There are TWO GENDERS and ONLY two genders, male and female and this is determined through genetics at birth and can be easily confirmed by reality, medicine and science. OK there are a VERY small percentage of people who are genuine hermaphrodites but that's not what we're talking about. On the otherhand there are hundreds of mental conditions and IMO this is all we are seeing here.
If I said I 'identified' as something I am not, say 'Julius Ceaser' and demanded everyone pay me tribute would I be encouraged to do that by society? Would whole movements spring up to legally enforce my delusion upon threat of legal action? Or would you gently lead me to a psychologists office where I belong because I was insane? All we are seeing with this trans/whatever movement is the normalisation of literal insanity. The insane have no logical counter to anyone's objections or indeed anyone simply pointing out the obvious truth hence they resort to name calling, abuse and 'lawfare'. The fact that we have laws to punish people for speaking the truth should be a wakeup call to everybody. Now I have read Labor's policies to increase the brainwashing and propaganda around this issue if they get elected in May so be warned. Not saying the libs are any better but at least they haven't formally said anything (that I know about?).
BTW, there is already a name for this mental disease and it's called 'gender dysphoria' but as will all attempts to pervert nature and engage in social engineering, they always start with language engineering.