Goodmorning friends and congratulations on the latest top 5 - optimism paid off :-)
Don't despair Eclectic & Elroy.
It's difficult not to compare ourselves to others, but it can blind us, just like bright sunlight when you're looking towards it.
Yes, the past does shape us to an extent. But I sugggest you avoid thinking about the past - perhaps you have to be my age to understand how well this works. I often say to myself "don't look back" - amazing how it frees me up to see solutions and find things to look forward to.
By all means, talk to trained professionals, but don't let them make you rake over every bit of your past and open old wounds - just makes it harder to get out of your mood. Get them to help you move forward.
Focus on your good qualities and talents. Everyone has plenty and some of yours have been evident here on DJPIN. Good stuff will happen!
I hope this helps a bit and everyone has a good day today.
