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11/02/21

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Originally posted by Parsifal: ↑

i did ask for your posts to be modded. I didn't run to mommy mod as you put it because I cant handle your abuse, but I did take the action in the end because I actually feel sorry for you by now. This latest post reinforces my view

You are more than pathetic, you encourage people to address you in a bad manner then lap it up and beg for more.

You are obviously not aware that this sentence alone tells us all rather a lot about you. Abusive people will always blame someone else for their behaviour. (sort of along the lines of "you made me do it" ) Part of growing up is to learn to step back and look at why you react as you do, and why you choose abuse over politeness. part of growing up is to take responsibility for your behaviour - to learn to see that you have choice in how you react. that choice includes deciding whether you will dig a bigger hole for yourself, embarrass yourself, be abusive or use other behaviours that put you on the fringe of decency and normality. Alternatives that are ultimately more productive include letting go, responding having activated your neocortex, finding something that might actually be amusing or simply leaving out the vile sexual and abusive content.

i am not inviting any abuse unless you choose to see someone who is prepared to confront you on your appalling behaviour as doing that. I might have hoped that somewhere in this day of exchange you could have experienced just the tiniest hint of self reflection that would be the first step towards you deciding to take control of your life in a more productive manner.

if you are older and have lived your life like this you are one a comparatively small number of abusive men in the older age group. most eventually get over themselves. if you are still young you have time to turn your life around and find happiness that is not dependent on external stimulants. Connection and intimacy are normal human desires. How do you possibly think you can achieve these by behaving this way - in public, in private or on an anonymous forum?

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@Parsifal - I am in awe of this post. I hope 'numbers' reads it well, and takes something from it.
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