i am not looking for anyone to commune with. i am not a surfer...

i am not looking for anyone to commune with. i am not a surfer

your close to zero experience shows you are in no position to guide anyone spiritually

a mind cannot reach jhana if it is overtly interested in sex

or it is not like buying a Mercedes Benz instead of a Holden

if you try for your whole life you will not reach jhana because jhana is a state free from sexual desire

jhana is a state free from both Mercedes Benz & Holden

jhana is the same path to enlightenment. it is desireless (apart from the subtle intention to drop desire)

good night