the wife had to fly to England as a 10yr old to go to boarding school from East Africa. the MIL has just come back from India after 10 weeks and has been there 3x in the last 5yrs.
if it all goes well he has a great life experience. if he goes and there is a problem the wife will always think that i'm pee d off with her for the oldest going to India. if i say no i'm just a (add a bad word) and have to spend the rest of my life having the "India trip" thrown in my face.
