My growing up times, 1 of 8 kids, (very poor etc, etc), doesn't make me special, it just made me who I am and what I have and what I value etc.
As for the giving subject, hence I mentioned my background, which covers the likes of that subject and more. Giving is also not just about giving of money and I expect you get this.
Never at any point in my posts, did I dismiss the context of what you were deeming rich in, but there are Two contexts of it, and my posts out of curiosity of others, was asking in relation to the other context as in $'s.
"out of curiosity" -> This was because, what I once thought would be considered rich, turns out to not be the case. Hence I was asking others, to see if perhaps they were making the same mistake? Not asking to condemned them though.
I'm picking up a little of ???? in your post and I am not sure why? I only laid out the posts, to let them do the talking (evidence) and to help you understand the context of rich, that all my posts were in reference to and that maybe, you were misunderstanding this, so chill
I certainly haven't felt and not, that I'm wasting my time with you
