i dont have too many regrets, or things I would do differently.... probably not get married, if I had my time over again.... but it was mostly enjoyable, and a whole experience, that has contributed, to the person I am today...
former spouse and I are still good friends....but we always were good friends...we just should not have married...
I may have moved to the city earlier,(if I had not married,) and fast tracked my career, earlier rather than later...purely for the buzz and the big money.. but I have had a 30 year career, its been full of challenges and very rewarding.... I love a good challenge... so am now in early retirement, I am looking for more challenges.... I am a workaholic at heart....so being a couch potatoe is not for me... the bird watching has been an interesting side show... I am looking to put back into society....there are huge choices... cheers