just to add to the balance here also, there are some of us 'vultures" out there that left their marriage taking nothing apart from their selfworth back.
obviously a lot of you have been badly hurt, to whome I'd like to say this.
Bitterness and anger are often the mask... of what we really feel inside...grief.
Untill we let ourselves grieve that mask remains.
Remove the mask and allow yourself to heal.
