I'm just sitting here and wondering which way we should approach things. You're absolutely right no heroic measures mean't no resusitation. I guess we were surprised that the doctors offered to withhold all antibiotics. My mother-in-law opted for oral antibiotics last night.
I guess we want to know what the chances are of getting over this. If we have a chance I feel my MIL would want to try. If he will be put through much unneccesary pain for no reason we obviously want to avoid that.