I love the fact what you do works but one problem though - lots of children are committing suicide so it does not work elsewhere, or you are delusional.
You are also confusing caring with what works. One does not necessarily follow the other and often does not. One has to do what is required. Caring alone can be found wanting.
I see Bun is still doing his pathetic sycophant thing in telling you what you want to hear.
