My sympathies.
A little off topic:
A few years ago a hardware manager (while serving me) made me look silly as he laughed and spoke loudly to his employees that customers in general --- "don't know what they want , and will waste your time." (referring to me) .... so I broke his nose.
Got done for assault , but was completely satisfied.
So , the moral of the story is that shopping online is less stressful to all parties concerned.
