if people wanted to start an action they would have talked to...

if people wanted to start an action they would have talked to you when you asked. so it seems it is only you that want that. people are free to discuss it with you but in this forum there does not seem to be anyone who wants to, you cannot force people to do what you want. you have given the option and not had any takers. try facebook and see if they want to play with you or maybe twitter