My advice is simple Get off Hotcopper, get off the net. You...

My advice is simple

Get off Hotcopper, get off the net. You won't find answers on these reoccuring threads, sitting at home on the computer

There is some great advice but no solutions, only you can find that.

Seek advice in the real world, get a real perspective on the issue and find support from real people wherever you think you may find them.

Don't get lost in cyberspace it will add to the downward spiral

There is no subistute for living life, you don't need money for this.
I know this from experience

cheers