statistically women suffer worse poverty and dislocation. the. add in the fear from the stalker type abuser, tracking your phone and car. ringing your work to see if you're there. the fear is horrendous.
then consider that more men are legally proven to be abusers than women. I make no further comment on this stat but there it is. fact.
when the man is considered by the court to be the abuser its necessary to regulate visiting. hey I get his UT. I too have been through the wringer and came out totally ripped off. but I was an unwilling party, so no surprises there. but this is the reality of stats and court appearances.
