"Should I sit shiva for abusive parents (who are still alive)? - After over 20 years of silence I told my mother of the sexual abuse my father forced upon me as a teenager.
They are not Jewish (I converted to Judaism 3 years ago). They have now completely rejected me and don't believe me and never want to see me again. I have considered shiva, is this wrong for me to consider my parents dead after all the pain I have endured these past years? After speaking up I feel as if a weight has been lifted, but have also considered changing my name too. What should I do"
You are such a tosser
Hardly worth abusing anymore..........
Go back and give Dad another polish
......its the only thing that stops him from rejecting you like the poor kid you posted on
