For a thinking person the answer is never just Yes or No.
Marriage in today's world isn't the same as it was 40-50 or 150 years ago, it's more like " Do you want fries with your Whopper"!
Don't get me wrong, I got engaged for a year, married, had a year to enjoy being married before committing to starting a family and when asked by the doctor who delivered our first Bub if we were married told him that history he said we must be upper middle class!?
I have nothing but respect for those who feel justified in saying No or Yes for that matter, I just wish they would take the vote with the caveat that nobody can whinge about the results and that regardless of outcome there can be no 2nd attempt for 50 years for those that don't like the result can sulk quietly and give people like me a chance to get on with things that aren't this.
That'll see me out and I won't have to be put through this debate again.
I was going to vote yes but on the day I might change my mind or just not bother.
